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FEATURE ARTICLE:
The Special Silent Treatment |
This article is dedicated to a special
person who drops by and reads articles from
the site occasionally. I will not be
mentioning any names, but you know who you
are. ; )
I've entitled this article "The Special
Silent Treatment" due to the fact that there
are certain individuals in our lives that
seem to live an existence like cock roaches.
Do you know what I mean?
You see, these type of people have no
real purpose in your life. They only seem to
bring a disgusting funk that ripples an
emotional tidal wave of constant unnecessary
disturbance. To these people, it seems the
only thing that matters is the outer shell
of life. There's real no substance. Kinda
like that cock roach. What's the real reason
for a cock roach?
I digress. . .
Well, for the cock roach you can call an
exterminator and that works for a while. But
for the outer shell people who seem to
search for certain ways to turn those you
love against you and for those who live in a
beautiful transparent ugliness - there is an
entirely different way to deal with them.
The Special Silent Treatment
This is reserved for the very special
person who has no real meaning in life, so
they try and find ways to make yours
difficult and miserable (unsuccessfully). With the special silent treatment
you have to cut off all ties of
acknowledgement. This person serves no real
meaning to your life, so you absolutely must
cease to see, hear or sense in any way that
she (or he) exist.
If you do acknowledge her (or him), you've countered your progress
for achieving a successful life.
This technique may seem a little harsh,
but, when you strive for drastic standards
for you and your family, business or life,
you MUST take drastic measures to protect
yourself from any cancer that may infest and
infect it's growth.
I will go out on a limb here and say - if
this kind of person does happen to realize
that she (or he) doesn't have to elevate
herself by attempting to tear you down, you
can always practice some mercy and offer
forgiveness. But I rarely see this happen
with the outer shell-type person.
Usually, these type of people are so
defensive, the last thing they would ever do
is to admit a mistake. If you were to
confront a person like this about the
stories and fabricated information she is
spreading, the typical results would be the
same as if you walked into a dark room full
of cock roaches and
flipped on the lights. They all just scurry to try and find the
darkest corner to go hide in.
See my point?
Your time is better spent by just ignoring
the behavior of these people.
However, in some extreme cases, there may
need to be legal counsel sought. This would
be in the cases of character defamation
and/or lies that are being told that would
hurt your professional well-being. But those
are really extreme cases.
In short, ignore the stupid people.
They're not worth your time. And they're not
worth mine. In fact, this article is the
last time you'll hear me make mention of
them.
Just leave them in the past and have a
blessed week!
Keep looking and living forward.
Mark Thompson
"America's Most Insightful
Guide To
Success and Inner Strength"
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